tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21607647.post113847958760237347..comments2008-02-01T14:09:29.865-05:00Evol Esumhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16100920482706389765noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21607647.post-61778244396959131092008-02-01T14:09:00.000-05:002008-02-01T14:09:00.000-05:00Hi, <BR/> I just want to say that it's nice to find out that I am actually not alone! I almost thought that I was the only gay in the world who thinks that way...<BR/> Belonging to the category of homosexuals who wish to be "normal" (as appeared in your post), I am having quite a hard time dealing with my identity. Sometimes I just think that I'm all alone in this world (and consequently will end up alone), not fitting into any category: I am sure not a heterosexual but I am also disturbed, if not repelled, by the idea that I am a gay who, by "definition", has to be flamboyant and to flaunt my "inherent" gayness. The very sense of alienation to either of the two categories sometimes sets me a little bit uneasy: after all, we are social animals, and the sense of belongings could be essential, no matter how independent and autonomous we appear to be. <BR/> Anyway it’s simply great (and especially comforting) to know that I am out there not alone. Thank you! <BR/><BR/>Clement.x2006<BR/>P.S: I especially liked these three sentences: “It is attraction that goes with a sense that I could build my life with this man. It is a sense that there is a future waiting for him and me to conquer. It is a feeling of mutual respect and a sense of possible reciprocity in feelings.” Very well said!clementhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02158069905758801806noreply@blogger.com